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10 Money Saving Tips for Your Wedding

Posted By on February 15, 2012

10 ways to save money if you’re a bride on a tight budget and they have NOTHING to do with DIY!! Unless you count doing your own manis, brewing your own coffee, and chopping your own vegetables!

1. Skip drive-through coffee drinks. Frequent visits to the coffee shop in the morning, could be costing you as much as $450 a year!! Brew it at home, pour it in a thermos and take it with you.

2. Avoid vending machines. Vending machines often win out when you need a quick snack at work or in between college classes. Buy snacks and soft drinks in bulk and keep a stash at your desk or pack them in a container as you head out for classes. You could save $197 a year!

3. Dump the Bottled water. If you purchase a $1 bottle of water every day you would be spending $365 a year. Buying bottles of water in bulk saves money, but you could still be spending up to $100 a year just for one person. And that’s just one bottle. You need at least 4 of those every day! Save up to $1300 a year by adding a $30 filter to your tap for clean water on demand. Take it with you in a self-filtering water bottle for about $10.

4. Have a girls night in: Invite your girls over for a spa party. Take turn giving manis, pedis, and even neck massages. Totally a no-cost evening catching up with your your friends. Substituting one night out a month with the girls for a night in with your own homemade snacks and drinks could save you $100 a year.

5. Go to the salon quarterly. By changing your polish at home in between appointments you could save more than $600 a year. You can find your favorite colors for as little as $4 per bottle.

6. Avoid the gym. What??? But you say, “No! I want to look good on my wedding day.” I know. Besides going outdoors for a walk, look for discounts for 50% or more on local yoga classes or boot camps on group buying sites (groupon.com and livingsocial.com). The possibility of saving as much as $700 year is worth the research!

7. Substitute store brands for name brands. Did you know that basic staples like flour, pasta, eggs and milk are generally the same no matter the producer so why pay extra  for the brand name? Substituting 6 staples a month = up to $288 savings per year.

8. Chop your own veggies. We all love convenience but if you spend just 10  minutes with a knife, you can save $130 a year!

9. Commute. Cutting out 2 paid parking spots per week ($3 each) saves more than $300 a year. Let’s say you spend just $5 a day in gas, carpooling with co-workers or college classmates once a week saves $250 a year! Scheduling your appointments to one day or combining your errands in one trip will help you save even more.

10. Dry Clean at home. Dry Cleaning is a big budget buster! If you make frequent trips to the cleaners you are probably spending up to $3,100 a year in dry cleaning costs! WOW! Purchase an at home dry-cleaning kit for $10 that cleans approximately 24 items.

Add all these savings up and you’ve got some serious cash for your wedding!! (A total $5,865!!) Most couples are engaged for a year and doing just *one* of these tips will allow you to purchase something for your wedding in the next year.  It will also help you get started in the right direction for saving for your first home. A little sacrifice is worth it in the long run, don’t you think? Are you willing to forego one or more things on this list for your wedding? Skipping the coffee shop…now…that’s a tough one!

 

**Statistics from All You. Visit them at www.allyou.com for money saving tips all year round.

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Wedding Photography Draws Us In

Posted By on January 25, 2012

I love looking at the photographs that come back from a couple’s wedding and seeing unique and precious moments – stolen moments – that the photographer captured from the day. I have not been so moved by wedding photography as I have been with Cami and Erik’s wedding photographed by Josh Elliott of Josh Elliott Photography. I don’t know this couple. I don’t know this photographer. But what I DO KNOW – this is a very special couple whose love is so beautiful and so strong for each other. How do I know this? The photographer has captured it. This is what a professional does. Photographers do more than just take pictures. They capture moments! They capture life! Special moments need special attention and hiring the right photographer – one who knows you and is in tune with you – to capture everything right down to the tears.

One photo from Cami and Erick’s wedding that I featured on my TaylorMade Weddings Facebook page  has gotten a lot of attention. It is the one where they are praying together. The couple wanted to pray together before the ceremony but not see each other and Josh was there to capture the beauty and emotion of that moment. People were so touched and moved by this. Not only because of the beautiful shot, but because of the beauty of the moment. We were all drawn in to the serenity of the moment, grabbing tissues and wanting to jump through the screen and kiss them! I am still gushing over this wedding. It is just beautiful! These are a few of my favorites. View more of this wedding here. Be sure to give your compliments to Josh! xxoo

 

 

 

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Calling All Brides

Posted By on January 10, 2012

Say Yes to THIS!! Kleinfeld of Manhattan is having a HUGE blowout sale Tuesday, January 31, 2012 beginning at 3:00PM. Can you say road trip? How far would you be willing to drive for your bridal gown? Share your thoughts!

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A Picture is Worth More Than…

Posted By on January 3, 2012

Dear Bride,

You’ve heard this a thousand times by now…read it a million times on Twitter, Facebook, and wedding blogs…that photography is so important on your wedding day! Videography/cinematography is equally important to capturing the special moments in life. I am passionate about special moments! Special moments need special attention…but is this worth it to you?

I came across this post from photographer Jeanine of Fototails Photography where she shared a letter – a handwritten letter to her – from a past client about what really matters in life. If you choose to read through the letter (included in its entirety) you will know why I’ve chosen to share it with you.

Here’s the letter in its entirety:

July 2nd, 2011

Jeanine –

Today I am writing for a couple of reasons.  I have some quiet time at the moment and need to get a couple of things off my mind.  I will leave this for my husband to deliver to you when he is ready.

You photographed my wedding, you photographed my first pregnancy and my first baby.  I contacted you awhile back to photograph my 2nd child and family.  After getting prices and realizing I would want all of the pictures as we love your work – I decided against spending $500+ – which is what I normally spend for portraits and prints with you..  Please know it is not because I don’t value your amazing eye, or how much we love the experience.

That week that I decided to NOT do a session with you, this is how I spent some money.

On Sunday I called and cancelled our session.  Monday I went out and got my hair cut ($39+tip), and colored ($65), Thursday I had my nails done ($24), my family went out to dinner at a somewhat expensive restaurant for no particular reason costing us $79 + tip.  This was just 4 days since canceling our session, already totaling over $200 for un necessary things.  My nails only lasted about 2 weeks, my hair is gone, and seven weeks passed when I got the phone call from our doctor.  It was not something I expected and the cancer has spread very quickly.  I will be leaving my husband, my 6 year old girl and my now 2 year old – not by choice.  It is very hard for me to talk about it which is why I need to write you.

I watch your Facebook page and your posts about the value of a photo and if I could give back all of those things that I purchased this few weeks after I cancelled my session with you, knowing what I know now, and have that session, well… I would do it in a heartbeat.

Now my time is done and there are no more chances for me.  The next time someone cancels a session – my wish is that you forward this letter to them.  Time is fragile, it is gone before you know you had it.  If you charged $200 for one print it wouldn’t be enough for what it is actually worth.  I cringe to think that my priorities were a manicure over a memory to pass onto my babies and husband.

My love and thanks for what you have given us from past photos.  I am so sorry that I did not see it as more than paper until now.

Karen L.

 

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Unique Vases for Centerpieces

Posted By on November 4, 2011

Looking for unique containers for those flowers for your wedding tables or bridal shower? Something that won’t break the budget? Time to think outside the vase and think “container.” Look for items that you can add a personal touch to and look somewhere besides the flower section of a craft store. Paper bags from the dollar store, old coffee cans or soup cans (washed out please), old glass containers (like sugar containers from a restaurant or grandma’s mason jars in the basement) of various sizes that you can spray with enamel paint to create a fresh look. Here are some ideas to inspire you to create a one-of-a-kind look for your party tables.

Paper Bag Vase

Image: Martha Stewart Weddings

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Coffee Can Vase

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Glass Bottle Vase

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Themed Weddings: Sci-Fi

Posted By on November 1, 2011

I recently posted on twitter about weddings reflecting the uniqueness of you as a couple but I did not mean for it to be taken THIS literally:

Gives a whole new meaning to talking in tongues!! Happy Day After Halloween!

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King of the World

Posted By on October 25, 2011

I’m always on the lookout for new and unique songs for special dances at wedding receptions. The Father/Daughter dance is my favorite part of the reception, next to the couple’s first dance. What a special moment that is and finding the perfect song can be a daunting task. Here is a song for you to consider if you were daddy’s little girl and share that “something special” with him: King of the World by Point of Grace.

What are some classic Father/Daughter dance songs you’ve heard?

 

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Wedding Day Heroes

Posted By on October 6, 2011

Danielle’s story about the benefits of hiring TaylorMade Weddings:

 

“I knew as soon as Jeremy proposed that I needed a wedding planner. I never wanted to plan a wedding – decorations, flowers, planning and organizing, coordinating colors and fabrics, and choosing music was never my thing. Jeremy, at first, thought we could do it on our own and felt that our budget would not allow for a wedding coordinator. I was devastated. I had visions that my wedding would be the worst one on the planet and that I would end up hating the word “wedding” after all was said and done. Jeremy quickly realized just how much a planner was needed in this process so we made the decision to hire Darlene & JT Taylor of TaylorMade Weddings. They were great with giving us the emotional support needed to get through our wedding day as well as the entire planning process – not to mention keeping us within our budget!”

Image: MBee Photography

 

“My theme for my wedding was ‘Simple, yet Elegant.’ Darlene was just full of ideas and always made sure I had what I wanted and was able to do what I wanted to do. She only met with me a handful of times and kept in touch through e-mail and phone. Darlene and JT work as a team and they were great to have for the rehearsal and the wedding day. They made sure that everyone was where they needed to be and was doing what they needed to be doing. Their goal for me was to be as stress free as possible on that day. They succeeded! I was so relaxed on that day because I knew they were overseeing and making sure that everything was just right.”

Images: MBee Photography

 

“I knew that I wanted my wedding pictures to look good but Jeremy and I had no idea that a good photographer cost so much! Darlene found us the best photographers ever – a husband/wife team just like them! Hiring two photographers is great because on the wedding day, one was able to capture pictures with the guys while one was capturing pictures with the ladies. They shot over 600 pictures and all were of the best quality!”

Images: MBee Photography

Image: MBee Photography

 

“The biggest wedding crisis of all happened with my wedding dress! I took my wedding dress to the cleaners to have it cleaned and pressed. A few days before the wedding, my dad picked it up from the cleaners and took it to my future sister-in-law’s house where it would be safe and stay clean until the wedding day. I did not see the dress until later that day. When I saw the dress, it had a spot on the front of the dress that looked like it was an iron stain or a coffee stain. It was VERY noticeable! At this point, I only had a few days left until the wedding. I had friends and family coming. I was still working. Jeremy and I were in the middle of moving into our new apartment. I was packing for my honeymoon. On top of all this, my mom was having surgery a day and a half before the wedding! I had NO TIME or patience to deal with getting my dress fixed. Darlene heard my concerns. She came and picked up my dress, took it to the cleaners and made them re-clean it for no charge. She even kept the dress safe and brought it to the church on the wedding day.”

Image: MBee Photography

 

“I highly recommend TaylorMade Weddings! Darlene & JT were dedicated to making my wedding day one of the most special days in my life. They were my heroes! If they could do all these things for me, they will most certainly do that for you!”

Image: MBee Photography

 

 

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Keeping It Together

Posted By on September 25, 2011

I’m not talking about keeping your sanity and mental stability in tact on your wedding day – I’m talking about keeping your wedding day wardrobe in tact!! In a recent article, written by Jen Chaney, that appeared in the Washington Post “CelebriTology” section on Sunday, August 14th, 2011, a question was asked: “Why can’t famous women stay clothed?” In the article, the author mentions the Janet Jackson wardrobe mishap in the 2004 Super Bowl which, back then (as if it were in the 50s), was freaking everybody out, and compared that to wardrobe malfunctions of 2011 which seem to cause no alarm. In fact, they seem to have become common occurrences. Khloe Kardashian appeared on Fox and Friends and flashed part of her assets from a sheer black top she was wearing – without a bra by the way. And Nicki Minaj’s halter top went rogue during an Aug. 5, 2011 live performance on ABC’s Good Morning America. During an August 2011 concert in West Orange, NJ, Kelly Rowland’s bra-like top went one way while she went the other! This may have gone unnoticed, but with the Internet, photos spread like wildfire and gave her top ranking on Google. Is this a trend? Is it so hard for these women – or women in general – to stay clothed? How does this relate to wedding day attire?

Many times I’ve seen brides buy a beautiful gown – one that may be strapless, or with a deep V neck – only to end up fussing with it all day or, worse, having an accident happen at an unsuspecting moment. While this is rare, there ARE things you can do to make sure you keep your “goodies” clearly covered and secure so you don’t end up Google’s most super-searched bride.

1.) Know your body shape before you go shopping so you can match your dress to your body type. Which body shape are you – apple, pear, ruler, or hourglass? Look for a dress that will flatter your body and will fit properly in the right places. That also means getting your gown properly fitted by an experienced seamstress and having the right undergarments in place. Do NOT DIY or skimp in this area, ladies. Hiring an experienced seamstress and purchasing good, quality undergarments will be important to keeping you together and in place! Even though you are not on TV you are still making a public appearance in front of hundreds of people. Keep it together!

2.) When trying on gowns, and also during your fittings, think about what you’ll be doing during your wedding and reception. Are there steps or stairs involved? Will you be sitting (of course you will for dinner)? Will there be kneeling? Will you be dancing? Practice doing all these things in your gown before you buy and again when you are being fitted. Let your seamstress see you move and walk in your dress. Tell her what the church is like or if you’ll be outside. And do these things especially if you are buying a second dress for the reception so you won’t have to have wardrobe issues like this bride:

3.) Purchase some Stylist Tape or some kind of apparel/body tape. Victoria’s Secret sells double-sided body tape in thin strips to help hold apparel in place. Every woman should own stylist tape! There have been many times when I have seen women bend over to get something and the neckline falls open to expose everything! Unless you think to hold your hand over your neckline every time you lean over – this fashion fix is for you. For $10.00, it’s worth it!

Ladies, I’m not saying you can’t – or shouldn’t – buy a sexy wedding gown or party dress. I AM saying to think through your purchase and take extra care to protect those necklines! As the old adage goes, “There’s no such thing as a wardrobe malfunction when one’s wardrobe functions properly.”

Happy Planning!

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Unique Fall Wedding Decorations

Posted By on September 9, 2011

Happy Fall Y’all!!! I love this time of year and I love all the decorating options for around the home that you can also use for your wedding! I recently came across this stenciled pumpkin idea on Emmaline Bride‘s Blog and thought how wonderful, and different, would these decorated pumpkins look around your home or as decor for your wedding! The decorating is easy. The DIY tutorial can be found here and you only need a few items and a few minutes!

Happy Decorating!

Image: Better Homes and Gardens

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